Happiness Is Around You

Happiness is a beautiful combination of joy and pleasure, that gives the way to peace. Happiness is a subjective feeling but today's world gives it an objective meaning. We have associated our happiness with wealth, bank balance, property, gold, and other materialistic things. But the basic formula of happiness lies in the forgotten pleasures. The pleasures once cherished by our elders are still 

the true sources of happiness, but unfortunately, we forget these ones.

Health,food,sleep,children,books,smiles,music,prayers,Quran,charity,timely help,forgiveness,honesty,appreciation,support,outdoor games,socializing,.......
all these components have lost their effects in our lives.We have forgotten to enjoy the pleasure of our good health because we do not care about that. Whereas, to have a healthy body, a healthy physique gives the ultimate pleasure of being fit in life and free from diseases.

Everyone is hurrying and running away. We are unable to give proper time to sleep, to children, to elders, and most importantly to ourselves. Elders do not realize that their children need them.They consider it enough, to give all the material things to their kids. But they are mistaken. Children want their real-time. They have so many problems to share with their parents. It is their first and foremost right to have quality time with their elders. On the other side of the picture, kids are themselves now so busy in useless activities, that they almost do not bother to spend time with family. They have made their own corners,  which is making them a more introvert and unsocialized.

It is said that "A smile is not just a way to exhibit your happiness and well-being,it is also a way to make people good about themselves."But we are misers and cowards to share our smile with others so that it may not spread like a wave of pleasure. We have become selfish almost at everything.

Similarly, forgiveness enables you to decide about your relationship with others based on happiness. In this state, you are tolerating others and in a long way, you feel closer to other persons.
But we the so-called "good human beings" like to take revenge, We like people hurting back in a more hard way. We do not forgive. We are egoistic. We like seeing others in pain. We enjoy to see them in a more miserable condition and in more hardships. We do not like to forgive others easily. We do not like to help others. We are harsh. We can not see others' happiness.

Life is wonderful and worth living, but we have made it very unhappy by creating ethnic, provincial, national and international conflicts. We live in a continuous race state of the race, running for our desires and positions. I do not condom this living style as I understand for such people, happiness is all about getting things. But to neglect many other things that are the true sources of bringing happiness in life is not a good idea.

Do find some positive ways to find happiness in life. Happiness that would last forever.The happiness that is collective.The happiness that is constructive.A happiness that is subjective. 

Drama Review

All the scenes, sound effects, background music, ost, characters, plot, central idea, and the direction is amazing to experience. Haseeb Hasan has justified with Umera Ahmad's novel. Beautifully picturized the theme of spiritualism.

What is "Change"?

   

                 

                               

Change is a process, a step by step way through which something becomes different.

It goes through planning, procedure, decisions, implementations, development, and influence. Without any one of these steps, the real results can not be acquired.

Change is a deep word. It covers many schools of thought. It is not something abstract. It covers many difficult approaches to be well handled.

Change is not what we see, change is how actually we perceive it. It is all about the matter of perception. Some people take it in a negative way and do not accept it, while the rest of them warm-heartedly welcomes that change. It is not something how it seems, it is something that comes along with it. Either it is in a positive way or negative.

We need change when we get stuck in a routine way of living. Even in any industry, the management brings new reforms, new projects, new offers, new advancements, and new policies. We all have to go through this process. Why do we want this change in living style? Why do we have a craving to do something different? It is just because we are human, and being a human it is the demand of human psychology to get new advancement, whether it would be in fashion, food, residence, nature, standards, manners, norms, values or anything.

Transformation brings fruitful results if it is being done in a positive way. For growth, change is necessary. It can be uncomfortable to get out of routine, but it can give you more experience in life. Taking a risk in life is crucial. Whatever would be the results, you learn a lot. And at the end of the day, it transforms you in a good way.

Obstacles in change means:

                            To deny, reject, refuse to accept and repress new innovations or change in society.
Resistance or obstacles can be;

• Individual-based
• Environment-based
• System-based
• Management-based

Further obstacles in change are;

• Gender unequal participation in a project
• Psychological thinking of people
• External environment or surrounding people
• Lack of resources
• Values, norms, culture, and religion
• Minority group ignorance
• Fear of loss
• Irresponsible management
• Poor planning
• Corrupt system
• Pressure group involvement
• Opposition parties in government
• Bad attitude of the change agent or opinion leader
• Ideology of society
• Small groups of society who have their own believes
• Those employees within an organization who do not support change
• Manager, executives, complete system or origination itself can create resistance
• Week infrastructure of the project
• Fear of the unknown, as people do not know who is the owner of this project so they can create resistance
• Fear of flaws 
• Unresearched work

                                                Rob Siltanen quoted:

“Here's to the crazy ones. The misfits. The rebels. The troublemakers. The round pegs in the square holes. The ones who see things differently. They're not fond of rules. And they have no respect for the status quo. You can quote them, disagree with them, glorify or vilify them. About the only thing you can't do is ignore them. Because they change things. They push the human race forward. And while some may see them as the crazy ones, we see genius. Because the people who are crazy enough to think they can change the world, are the ones who do.”

― Rob Siltanen

Society does not accept such people. But the truth is, they are the ones who can bring true development, real transformation and positive change in the world.

In short: Nothing would be changed if nothing changes. Try to come out of your comfort zone. Try new things. Think out of the box. Leave the orthodox mindsets. It will teach you a lot.